When asking for criticism, many writers find themselves asking for trouble, often getting more than they bargained for or less real help than they need.

         The problem is not usually in the answers, however, but in the questions. For responses to be useful, writers should strive to define the sorts of support or criticism they want. For example:

     Have you encountered a specific problem with a piece and need some help
     solving it?

    Would you like your reviewers to limit their comments to what they believe the
     piece is about and how it affected them, so you can compare their reactions to
     your intentions?

    Do you consider the piece a rough draft and need some encouragement to
    continue working on it? (Don't laugh. Praise is a legitimate need and serious
    writers are entitled to it.)

    Do you consider the piece an early draft and need some help identifying its
    strengths and weaknesses?

    Do you consider it a completed draft that just needs a little polishing? Or would
    you be willing to consider major edits or revisions?

    Are you undecided about the title? 

    Are you uncertain about the piece's voice, or its viewpoint, or its narrative style?

    Are you uncertain about its structure, say, the way it begins or ends?

Often the simple process of asking yourself questions like these can provide the answers you're seeking. But most important, asking the right questions about your work protects you from accidentally inviting comments that are apt to confuse or discourage you.

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